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Diamond Peak – My second volcano of the season

Posted by julie on Tuesday, 3 August 2010, 23:14

Diamond Peak, briefly.

Leslie, Wendy, and I on the summit of Diamond Peak

Leslie, Wendy, and I on the summit of Diamond Peak

In case you were curious about the location, date, or elevation...

If you’ve been following along, you may remember that this is part of a set (not currently as pregnant as the first belly shot [and will never be again, thank goodness] and nowhere near as chiseled as the second). And, yes, those are thunderheads behind me. About 12 minutes after this photo was taken, I mumbled something like, “F&*#!” as I skittered down a snowfield, on the way off the ridge.

Ground squirrel asking for peanuts, in vain

Isn’t Leslie’s gaiter nicely in focus? This little guy liked her gaiter straps. He stood up for us, wondering how much chocolate he’d find in our packs if he gave all three of us patellar puncture wounds.

Summit Lake (mosquito heaven) and the ridge to the south, our exit route

We walked up on the snow, and you can see our tracks. This is my third time on the mountain in July, and the first time I’ve ever encountered snow on the walk in. We brought ice axes to glissade down the eastern side, but it’s steep, so we ridgewalked back down. I couldn’t have asked for a better pair of hiking buddies (tough, good conversationalists, not whiney, appreciative, good chocolate), but maybe next time Chris will join us to offer just enough testosterone to push me off the eastern slopes.

Boot-skiing down the southern snowfields

Still, we boot-skied down hundreds of feet of the southern side of Diamond Peak. Fun!

I don’t know what it is about this mountain, but I can’t think of a better way to spend my four-year Stroke-iversary.

Mt. Bailey – My first volcano of the season

Posted by julie on Friday, 16 July 2010, 23:15

My friend Chandra, with whom I spend far too little time, asked me to join her for a reconnaissance climb of Mt. Bailey, an old volcano north of Crater Lake. She’s leading a hike up Bailey in a few weeks, and I need to climb volcanoes – perfect fit!

We saw one great horned owl; one sign warning of a blue-green algae bloom in Diamond Lake; maybe one hairy woodpecker, just glanced through the trees; countless mountains in our 360 degree view from the summit, including the Three Sisters, Jefferson, Washington, Diamond Peak, Mount Scott, the remains of Mount Mazama, and also Mount McLoughlin, Mount Shasta, and probably Mount Ashland; lupine, paintbrush, pasqueflower, bleeding heart, blooming manzanita, mountain dandelion, tiny yellow mountain violets, their blooms the size of my thumbnail, and grouse whortleberry.

Chandra was bitten by 207 mosquitoes (okay, that’s a guess), and we were both driven nearly mad by many thousands of other bloodsuckers. She taught me about roadless areas and the poisoning of Diamond Lake. Last night, we saw oodles of stars from our tent’s skylight. We were awoken by many fishermen at 5 a.m., after they’d finally gone to bed at 11 p.m., following quite a bit of discussion about “franks.” I only threw one snowball at Chandra; I missed on purpose.

Here are a few photos from our trip:

Our first peek at Bailey from the trail. The summit is the bare area in the middle along the horizon.

Chandra not swatting at mosquitoes for a moment, with Diamond Lake and Mt. Thielsen beyond.

Looking through the summit ridge's window to Thielsen.

Cinder saddle, rock wall, talus slopes, then easy walk to summit.

Mount Bailey across Diamond Lake. I found this photo at a thrift store. It looks like it might have been taken a little earlier in the season than now - maybe May or June.

Oscar night

Posted by jonesey on Monday, 8 March 2010, 20:52

Our friends Chandra and Eric host an Oscar party every year. They encourage us to dress up, and they even take red carpet photos. This means I get an excuse to wear my tuxedo at least once a year. Here’s a photo of Steve, Eric, and your humble scribe, looking pretty suave.

I'm well dressed, but I have a little face coming out of the back of my head.

A triune conversation about The Van, with special guest The Analyst

Posted by jonesey on Monday, 15 February 2010, 22:29

I happened to mention to a few friends that our family had acquired a new vehicle, and one, who is a bit farther into middle age than I and who makes his living as an Analyst, posed an inquiry.

A mini-van or an SUV? Welcome to America!

I, attempting to clarify, replied with a link to my previous weblog entry, complete with photo:

It’s a van van. http://www.tovis.com/weblog/?p=1153

He replied with some Analysis. Trying to be helpful and explanatory, of course.

Nice ride. And Dude, it’s a mini-van. A mini-van has unibody construction, front wheel drive, coil springs, an automatic transmission, a “family” seating configuration and, usually, a V6 engine between 2.5 and 4.0 L. A van is really a truck. It has body on frame construction, rear wheel drive, often leaf springs in the back, and various seating, transmission, and engine configurations based on application. If I bought a mini-van, it would be like yours and it would still be a mini-van.

Well, you see, my lovely wife, my better and prettier half, Julita, light of my life, fire of my loins, does not like minivans. She has no truck, if I may be so bold, with minivans. She despises them. They call out to her, but she scorns them, declaiming her Kahlil Gibran, who once wrote:

[The minivan] stands at the turn in the road and calls upon us publicly, but we consider it false and despise its adherents.

So of course, I, being a truthful and honest and communicative husband, forwarded The Analyst’s message on to my wife, saying, yea verily:

These are the people I call my friends.

She set me straight:

That man is NOT your friend.

I, being one to protect my friends, and also my NOT-friends, because I do so love them all, forwarded her correction to The Analyst, with the following preface:

For future reference. Best not to use the “M” word around the wife if you value your intact body.

The Analyst, for his part, cut out the middle-man (your humble scribe) and replied to both of us with a rambling message about a medicated woman, a spade, a Subaru, and something called a “Johnson unit” (I didn’t ask).

I used to work with a woman who got very upset when I called her Subaru a station-wagon. After a stay in the Johnson unit and a long battle to stabilize her meds, she’s back at work and feeling fine.

Anyway, welcome to middle age. Denial of conformity is an important part of feeling that one, and one’s family, is “special.” So its not a mini-van. It is a special vehicle for special, gifted non-conformist people.

[T.A.]

P.S. In my professional life, I’ve had countless run-ins with people who got pissed at me for calling a spade a spade. The trick, as in the present case, is to have unarguable data.

I think this chapter is complete, but I still say he should keep his mouth shut around the loin-firer.


Clear Lake 2009

Posted by julie on Tuesday, 13 October 2009, 23:16
Sylvan as train on the boat ramp. Note the neon green kayak. What a gorgeous place to be in a boat on a fall day.

Sylvan as train on the boat ramp. Note the neon green kayak in the background. What a gorgeous place to be in a boat on a fall day.

Thanks to Chandra, we found our favorite fall destination three years ago. We ventured back to Clear Lake this year with two other families, both with 4-year-old sons and 1-year-old daughters (well, one’s 11 months).

The girls

The girls

The boys

The boys

We last visited two years ago, when Sylvan was half as old as he is now. He was a good hiker then, insisting on walking so much that we nearly ended our hike by headlamp. This time, he wasn’t nearly as gung ho, but he did walk four of the five and a half miles, really hitting his stride with about two miles to go. And the other two little guys walked even more than that. Even Elena walked a bit; we were so far behind the other two families due to our little boy dawdler (it wasn’t exploring, Grammas; it was dawdling) that I just let Elena walk for a while. She appreciated not being in the backpack; her brother, on the other hand, still likes being in the backpack.

kidsintree

For your viewing pleasure, a re-enactment:

Are you kidding? That water's 38 degrees.

Are you kidding? That water's 38 degrees. 2007.

I might hold a grudge this time. 2009.

I might hold a grudge this time. 2009.

Someone's not afraid of a little cold water. So unafraid that I had to pull her away kicking and screaming. Literally (and I know what that means).

Someone's not afraid of a little cold water. So unafraid that I had to pull her away kicking and screaming. Literally (and I know what that means).

"Mommy, I'm a big-horned cow."

"Mommy, I'm a big-horned cow."

Some natural history notes:

  • When you walk around the lake, it’s difficult not to notice that the vine maple leaves appear to be dependent on the amount of sunlight they receive for their autumn color. The leaves in the full sun are red, those in the dappled forest are peachy, and there are pockets of orange and yellow.
This samara left a yellow "shadow" on the leaf behind.

This samara left a yellow "shadow" on the leaf behind.

  • Chris has some animal notes to share. If life bogs him down and he hasn’t posted these within a few days, I’ll attempt to fill in.
  • Mount Washington sported some large, new patches of snow. I climbed it two weeks ago (trip report to come), and my partners and I only found some of last spring’s snow. But this autumn’s snow is nothing compared to that of two years ago. I just pulled up this photo of the Sisters from 2007, and they’re covered. Not so a few days ago. But it’s raining now. Not so much hard as convincingly.

To tide over those who await birthday letters

Posted by julie on Tuesday, 12 May 2009, 16:43

Check out these kids:

Sylvan, Wynnona, and Cole hunt for eggs

Sylvan, Wynona, and Cole hunt for eggs

Compare them to these little cuties.

Happy inauguration day

Posted by jonesey on Tuesday, 20 January 2009, 8:47

obama cookie, bush monkey cookie

My most vivid memory from Baird and Sara’s wedding

Posted by jonesey on Friday, 19 October 2007, 19:26

Baird and Sara got married five years ago today. Here’s my favorite story from their wedding.

We were eating lobster. I sat at a table that was about half lobster rookies. Growing up with frugal parents, I hadn’t eaten lobster very often, but I did grow up in Boston, so my family probably ate it about once a year. It was a Big Deal, and a Major Treat. We each, four of us, got our own lobster.

In any event, I had learned how to eat lobster. I had loads of fun teaching the newbies how to eat this truly strange quasi-insect of a food.

But that’s not my favorite part of the story. After I had eaten my lobster, I paid a visit to Sara, on whom I had developed a bit of a crush. I’m a sucker for a bride. Something about the glow, and the hormones, probably. Anyway, that’s embarrassing, and it’s not the good part of the story. I sat down next to her and made some small talk, asking her if she had enjoyed the lobster.

“Oh yeah,” she said. “This is my third.”

“What, you mean ever? Your third lobster ever?” I figured Sara for someone with vast lobster-eating experience. How could I have been wrong about this? I just couldn’t wrap my head around it.

“No, tonight. My third lobster tonight.”

My brain did a back flip. Wait, what? I had never considered the possibility that someone could, at a single sitting, consume more than one lobster. I mean, sure, John D. Rockefeller maybe, or Louis XIV, or some Roman reclining on a couch just back from a little session with a feather, but not a regular person. Not Sara.

She ate three lobsters.

My world would never be the same.

I went back to my table after a quick stop at the buffet, and I didn’t look up until number two was gone.

Mount McLoughlin

Posted by julie on Wednesday, 25 July 2007, 15:30

The nighthawks had settled in to roost on the gravelly shore of Fourmile Lake after completing their graceful evening mosquito slaughter. I was sure that the lake held enormous bullfrogs, burping loudly, but it was nighthawks, pulling out of daredevil dives, that boomed through our dinner. Sylvan and Leslie share food. Leslie shares food, really.The birds earned the name “boom bat” in the South for these noises (I don’t know that they’re vocalizations) and for their crepuscular flying antics. After Wendy, Leslie, Chris, and Sylvan tucked into the tents, I sat leaning against piles of driftwood, Cassiopeia to my right and Mount McLoughlin over my left shoulder. Little dark waves faded into the dark gravel as they traveled toward me. The setting first-quarter moon brightened the edges of the cloud hovering over McLoughlin, at 9495 feet almost 4000 feet higher than Fourmile Lake. If I had to miss the Polhemus family reunion on Cape Cod, I’m glad I could spend the weekend here, especially with Leslie and Wendy, two of the most patient, generous toddler companions and friends we could find.

Leslie asked us to climb Mount McLoughlin and Mount St. Helens this summer. I immediately said, “yes,” with an especially enthusiastic response for McLoughlin, which is right off the Pacific Crest Trail in southern Oregon. In 2003, I had looked forward to climbing some of the Cascade peaks while on the Oregon PCT. That proved impossible within our timeframe, unfortunately, so I still hanker to slowly chip away at the list of volcanoes I want to stand on. McLoughlin is an easy climb —11 miles round-trip with 3900 feet of elevation gain — evidenced by the 15 cars in the parking lot by 9 a.m. on Sunday morning. If McLoughlin were situated in the central Oregon Cascades, we probably would have seen 100 people rather than 20, though. South Sister, on a sunny weekend, is a misery of too much company. But you will see someone you know, if that’s your thing.

Sylvan hikes Mt. McLoughlinDespite his mother’s ridiculous impatience, Sylvan walked for the first 2.5 miles and 1000 vertical feet of McLoughlin’s summit trail, with a short interlude of .25-.5 mile on Daddy’s back. While we were impressed with his endurance and rock-hopping ability, it wasn’t until we walked back down over that terrain that we really recognized Sylvan’s hiking prowess. And while he walked slowly, less than a mile an hour, folks who’d passed us on the way up still sat on the summit when the women in our party summited. I want to quietly encourage my little hiker, never pushing him to love what I love, so that perhaps he won’t rebel when he’s 14 and tell me that if he never hikes another step it will be too many.

When Sylvan’s naptime arrived, Chris shouldered the little big boy, carrying him up another few thousand feet — despite the fact that Chris had run 31 miles in a row eight days earlier. Then, 50 minutes before Leslie, Wendy, and I reached the summit, Chris and Sylvan headed down because the route included some boulder scrambling (Thanks for taking one for the team, Honey.). Above the boulders, the route along the ridge climbed through some slippery scree, never with frightening runout. We passed three dogs on their way down, all leading their separate parents down the slope. Ah, to have four legs for balance.

I signed the summit register, touched the tip-top rock, and scree-skied down, trying to make it down quickly because I understand the loud unhappiness of a nap-skipping toddler. I know that it’s easier to deal with that unhappiness in the company of another adult who will make faces, laugh uproariously, and generally mimic all of the toddler’s bad manners. Toddlers love that. Actually, ours does. Silliness almost always wins.

I told my sister that I’d climbed McLoughlin on her 28th birthday, and I said I was surprised at how strong I felt, like I really am bionic. I haven’t been running much, yet I hardly noticed that little climb. She said, “That’s what I’ve been waiting for. I keep asking you if you feel different since your surgery, and, finally, you do.”

No Good

Posted by julie on Thursday, 31 May 2007, 22:26

Wynona, Cole, and Sylvan Can you imagine this trio in fourteen years? That’s Wynona (18 months), Cole (22 months), and Sylvan (20 months).